They say, "Anger is important".

"You are never angry at people, you won't survive. " "You are never angry, You'll be taken advantage of." "You can't deal with the world without being tough, you're weak." "You don't scold your kids , you'll spoil them." "You have to be rude, you have to fight, at some point of your life. " At work , at school , even your family members will tell you, "You'll never be able to get things done without anger,anger is important." I'm pretty sure you might have heard someone say those things, if not to you, to someone else. They say they are looking out for you, and they think they are helping you. Do not listen to them. They are not your well wishers. They don't even realize. Actually they are unintentionally jealous. They just can't understand, "How someone else can be so calm all the time, when they are not?" That's right, the society will think you're going crazy when you're going sane. Because "what everyone is doing is normal." Everyone is impatient, everybody uses anger to get things done. So , the minority who is healthy or making efforts to be ; is asked , "How are you so healthy? You should fall ill ,falling ill is normal ; after all everyone falls ill. " "Fever cough , weak eyesight , you should atleast have some cold once in a while. " Yes , they are that unrealistic when they say, Be angry , because that's what all of us do ; and what everyone is doing is normal. There are very few courageous people out there, who are not as rude as "the normals" and we want to deceive them too. And you know what? They are easily deceived. Because, anger gives immediate results , people get their things done. They don't care, they force others; the others have to do the work for them , they don't want to. This is probably why everyone hates their bosses. Everyone thinks differently, naturally there will be clash of views or dissatisfactions. Unfortunately we are acustomed to express it through an emotion called anger, because its easy. And indeed, at that moment, we feel, it was important ; but was it? Anger is a negative emotion when expressed, we hurt the listener and we hurt ourselves the most. The society has nurtured the importance of use of anger since the beginning , And that's why , anger is how we respond to some event or somebody, because we are so used to reacting on impulse, we forget to choose how we want to feel, and then respond inappropriately. Remember, when you'll be soft, when you'll choose your peace , when you'll choose to be polite, when you'll choose determination to explain over impulse or anger against the society norms. They may call you weak, they may call you crazy. But you'll know , what everyone is doing is common; and being common is not being normal. Choose for yourself. For the comfort of being accepted by others , don't just follow them. Find yourself. Be yourself. If people talk, let them.